You’re quite proud of all the crazy sex styles you’ve done in the bedroom. But if you’re up to completing your sexual repertoire with your boo, by adding some awesome and crazy stuffs to your sexual accomplishments, you may want to consider adding these 7 things to your sexual bucket list.
Have “no-orgasm sex”
It may look pointless, but having a no-orgasm sex with your partner can actually help you break away from the predictable routine of regular orgasm sex. Doing this involves spending a lot of time building intimacy which can be achieved by looking directly into your partner’s eyes. This helps to release oxytocin- a bonding chemical that helps increase desire and establish a greater sense of intimacy. To increase the release of this sexual hormone, focus more on passionate kissing, smooching, breathing around your partner’s neck and blowing over the left side of your partner’s body to stimulate the pleasure side of his brain as opposed to focusing on the genitals. After having no-orgasm sex for a while, when you get to have orgasm, the sex would be way hotter.
Take a tantric trip together
Tantra is a sangria word meaning “wooden together”. Developing tantric intimacy with your partner is something that should be in your sexual bucket list. The breathing, swift movements, and muscle control practices allows you and your partner to share long-lasting pleasure experience accompanied by break-the-bed sex moves. Going on a tantric trip with your partner or practicing with them can only make your sex life more interesting and open you up to a new world of intimacy you never knew existed.
Get naked in nature
A lot of reasons can be ascribed to why sex outside is steamy and exhilarating asides the fact that it is risky. Nature has a lot of energy which can be a turn on for a lot of people. You can try having a sexual romp under a tree in the backyard of your house or late at night with the stars overlooking you. In all, this adventure is bound to spice things up and open new sexual adventures you never thought possible.
Try a Kama Sutra position
If you’ve ever gone through the Kama Sutra, you might be tempted to think it contains sexual positions reserved only for acrobats. However, there are a tons of positions available for couples who can contort their bodies to a certain extent. For instance, the Utphallaka pose, or The Flower Bloom, basically entails the woman raising up her vulva higher than her head while lying on her back and having her partner enter her from above. It sounds simple enough, doesn’t it? It might seem a little out of your comfort zone but it is worth trying especially because of the pleasure you and your partner would derive from it.
Make a sex tape together
Well, this is a bit risky especially if we put into consideration how many sex tapes are out there. However, the naughtiness that comes with filming yourself and your partner is thrilling enough to take your sex life from 0 to 100. Whether you’re single or married, so long as you’re comfortable with your partner, you can make a video together which you can subsequently watch while having sex if you intend to make each other go wilder. It is important than you keep the video away from the reach of any one. In fact, password the file if possible.
Play unexpected games
Who remembers the age long truth-or-dare game? As it turns out the game is not one to be restricted to first of second years in university. You and your partner can turn this classic game into one with sexual proportions that can create amazing laughter, fun and of course, sex. If truth-or-dare is not your thing, you can try out a naked pillow fight or an intense tickle war with your spouse. Creating new sex memories should be top of your bucket list especially with sex games. Sex games can help you associate fun times and intercourse. Added to the fact that the person used to initiating sex between you and your partner would be glad at the change of pace.
Strip down in a semi-public space
Note that the operative word here is SEMI. Don’t consider doing it in a park or shopping mall except you’d want to be arrested for disturbing public peace. Instead, go to a place that is more secluded but still holds a bit of risk such as a restaurant bathroom or a store dressing room. The excitement and adrenaline rush would naturally help to boost your sex drive for a long time to come.