Best Advice: Never Forget Where You Came From

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I have tremendous respect and admiration for people who are authentic, people who happily acknowledge their family and cultural roots, and who never forget where they came from. There are many people in the world who have struggled to have a better future, and they have accomplished it by hard work, dedication, sacrifices, and by the help of others. A great number of these people have made it big in business, and in the media and entertainment industries to name a few.
The saddest thing to see is how quick some of these people forget where they came from to a point that they feel ashamed to talk about their past and how they arrived to where they are now. I think this goes beyond sad because such stories can serve as a very valuable tool to encourage other people who have also embarked on a journey to pursue a better future. Why does this happen? What makes these people “forget” where they came from?.

When people go through hardships in life, they often become resentful and frustrated for having struggled more than others. Even when they make it big, they are selfish, arrogant, boastful, disrespectful, and so on. It seems that in the way to pursuing a better future, their hearts were hardened by the circumstances they had to endure.

It is understandable that suffering and pain can cause any person to feel the most negative emotions; the difference is in getting over them, particularly when people’s goals have been satisfactorily met. Life is hard, no doubt. Fortunately, we can learn to be better people without forgetting where we came from.

How do you remain true to yourself? Here are five pieces of advice that can be very helpful to you.

Don’t be ashamed of your family and cultural roots: Our world is so diverse that no nationality is better than another. Not having had the best parents, the ideal childhood or the most prestigious academic education is not a reason to feel embarrassed about your life. You are at a better place now than you were yesterday, this is what counts. Do not let other people define who you are because of where you came from. No one has had a perfect family nor has had the perfect cultural and educational experiences.

Acknowledge and share your struggles and accomplishments: This does not imply that you have to dwell on the difficult things that you went through. On the contrary, acknowledging your struggles and how you overcame them helps you to continue pressing on. Also, when you share with others, it is empowering to them.


Be grateful to the ones who help you
: Always recognize the people who help you on the way. This is not about repaying them what they have done for you, it is about being grateful and showing that you do not take people or things for granted. Do what your heart tells you to do. Having an attitude of gratitude is key in life.

Help others with your resources: Remember the people who help you and be that kind of person who helps others too. Helping others is rewarding. It is not about the amount of help that you can give, it is about your good disposition to help. You may not have what a certain person needs, though you can lead her to someone who could provide what she needs. You have more resources to help than you think. It is not always about money.

Be respectful to everyone: Respect is to be extended to every person, it is a human right. Respect people. If you do not agree with what some people believe or say, it is okay, respect them anyway. At the same time, keep healthy boundaries in place. Being disrespectful to disrespectful people is foolish.

Have an accountability group in place: It is very important to have people in your life that you can reach out to for advice and to keep a reality check on how you’re coping with things. Your group may consist of two or more people who you highly trust and confide on. This is extremely essential for you to thrive.

Never forgetting where you came from will keep you grounded and in touch with reality. Embrace your life and the one of those who have helped you be where you are now.

What do you think about embracing your past and your present no matter what you have gone through? Please share in the comments section below.



Author: Tiko14

Welcome to my wORDpreSS. I am a Ghanaian who lives in Ghana and has a passion for Ghana, hence talks a lot about Ghana. I blog about entertainment, tourism, politics, arts, culture and football. I am in the media and have the advantage of working both in Accounting firms and I. T firms. I like divergent views so disagree with me but let’s not abuse each other. Enjoy the blog while you are here, your views and topics are most welcome.

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